Sunday, April 18, 2010



Love is a strange feeling that can be one of the most amazing in all the world. Sometimes the emotios associated with love are blissful and there are times when they can really hurt. In the end love is something most of us, if not all of us will encounter. While there are many diffferent ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (or even yourself)....

here is a general guide to loving ....

@>~~~ Say it. When u say the words ''I love u" they should carry with them the desire to show someone that u love them, not what u simply want to feel. When u say it makesure u really mean it and are willing to do anything for what that special person.
@>~~~Emphatize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes.Rather than impose your own expexpectations or attemp to control them, to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who there are .Realize how they could also love you back just as well
@>~~~Expect nothing in return .That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you .It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love.
@>~~~Realize it can be lost. If u realize that you can lose the one you love,then you have a greater appreciation of what you have .

@>~~~Never stop loving. Even you have hurt before you should not stop giving love.

Warning ...
! You must love yourself before you can love another.
! There is always the risk of getting hurt ,but that's part of letting yourself fully love and trust someone. being hurt could be long-lasting and could hurt more than anything in the world.

! Realize what you have while you have it , and care for the person you trust.

! If something comes to an end , try to let go rather than holding on ..its for the best.

! If you feel any doubt of the lover your partner has for you , make sure that your suspicions are grouded in reality . If you hurt your partner as a result of undeserved mistrust, he/she may end up doubting both you love for them and theirs for you .

! Dont ask for love . You should receive love becouse your partner wants to give you love ,not because you want it from your partner.

! Do not force love .It will come in good time-perhaps not with the person you initially want, but love definitely will come if you are willing to share it with someone...

Note .....

It does not make you a bad person to desire someone else's love, even if they do not love you .However to truly love someone you must let them free . It is selfish to blame them for your feelings .

Sgt bersyukur sb diberikan anugerah utk dicintai dan mencintai....walaupon kdg2 sangat membahagiakn dan adakalanya amat menyakitkan...walaupun kita tahu kesudahan sesebuah hubungan tu....yg pasti biarkan masa yg menentukan....


  1. that's true but you cannot give up to love as love will never gave up on you... :-)

  2. dh ditentukan...dan ditetapkan...

  3. . . .
    Isabella , if you see this .
    ilu . x3
    ~ Andrew (: *